“Lean In” to What?

Shangri-LaI’ll withhold judgment on Sheryl Sandberg’s book until I actually read it, but the impending publication seems to have reignited an old debate:

How much should we collectively worry about the dismal retention rates for women (and minorities) in large law firms?

Does it matter if these firms remain bastions of the old white guys? And, if it matters, is it okay to pressure people to stick around, even if they’d rather bail out and reclaim a little “me” time? (Or, I don’t know, get a full night’s sleep every now and then?)

To certain ears, it’s heretical for me to say this, but I just can’t work up too much angst about the fact that women are leaving BigLaw in droves. Why wouldn’t they?

Let’s look at the facts:

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Subject to Interpretation: Can We Talk About Fashion?

Juliana SiconolfiDoes it really matter what you wear as a lawyer? Shouldn’t you be judged on how brilliant your briefs are, not on whether your nail polish is chipped or your shirt is wrinkled? Maybe, but we all know that’s not how it works in the real world. Guest poster Juliana Siconolfi returns with a simple suggestion: Can we at least talk about these things?

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Kate’s Counsel: Speak Up!

Kate McGuinness - Terminal AmbitionMore hard-won advice from the fantastic Kate McGuinness, author, advocate, and former BigLaw partner and Fortune 300 GC. Do check out the video at the end!

I imagine many readers are burned out from adopting and abandoning New Year’s resolutions, but I’m going to suggest one more: Speak up in class.

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Subject to Interpretation: What to Wear?

Juliana SiconolfiToday, we’re excited to welcome Juliana Siconolfi, Professorial Lecturer in Law and LL.M. candidate at The George Washington University Law School for her first Subject to Interpretation post. She’ll be writing about a very important, interesting, and under-discussed topic: appearance standards and professionalism.

Hi, Everyone, and thank you for taking the time to stop by my guest post. Thanks also to Alison for giving me the opportunity to speak with you all. Over the course of the next few posts, I look forward to sharing some of my thoughts and experiences concerning an aspect of professionalism that is often times not taken very seriously — the appearance standards that female attorneys confront. 

I want to discuss what the standards are, how these standards may help/hinder our career goals, and whether we might want to change some/all of them . . . and if so, how?

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On Fear and Fearlessness

FearLately this quote has been making the rounds:

“What would you do if you weren’t afraid to fail?”

But I’m not sure that’s the right question to be asking.

Sure, as a mental exercise it might be helpful…I mean, I’d love to be able to snap my fingers and climb Everest, or surf Mavericks, without going through the “Holy crap, this is really scary, I might die” phase. But am I actually going to do either of those things? Probably not. (Everest isn’t inconceivable, but my one surfing attempt made it clear that’s not the sport for me.)

Is there an alternative?

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Fun and Inspiration at the Ms. JD Conference – She Leads!

Ms. JD - She LeadsA special guest report from Lee Burgess about the wonderful Ms. JD conference!

This past Friday, I had the privilege of attending the Ms. JD conference in Washington, DC, aptly titled, She Leads. This was my first Ms. JD conference and it was a fantastic experience. So fantastic, that I wanted to share my thoughts with all of you so you could share in my excitement.

The conference was hosted by American University College of Law. What a great location for such an event, because of the school’s commitment to the study of women and the law. Turns out that the school was even founded by two pioneering women over 100 years ago. What a great story (you can learn more about it here). American University Washington College of Law

The room was stuffed with law students and attorneys — all eager to meet each other, network and learn from each other.

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Why “Get Over It” Isn’t Helpful Advice

SkiingIf you spend time in discussions about “women in the law,” you’ll pretty quickly run into a particular Type, which, frankly, I’ve had about enough of. I’m not naming any names, and it really doesn’t matter exactly who any of this is based on. Imagine it’s an amalgamation — because it is. I’d never kiss and tell.

Anyway, here’s the situation. Someone, generally a young lawyer looking for advice, raises a totally reasonable and valid concern — say, for example, that law firms aren’t particularly hospitable places to work — and gets this response:

Suck it up. Stop whining. It’s your fault if you can’t handle the hours/the pressure/the come-on from that inappropriate senior associate. You just need to be more driven, more ambitious, and more resilient, and this won’t be a issue. It’s your problem, and I don’t want to hear about it. (Oh, and by the way, if you quit over this, you’re failing women everywhere who don’t have your options.)

Helpful, right? Yeah, not so much.

The interesting part is who this stuff is coming from. To put it delicately, it’s female lawyers, generally current or former BigLaw partners, of a “certain age,” who are ostensibly trying to be helpful and supportive to younger women.

So, taking that at face value, I want to talk about exactly why this approach is wildly unhelpful and offer a few suggestions that might facilitate a more productive dialogue.

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Stop Telling Me to Play Golf. Enough, Already!

GolfI swear to you, if ONE MORE PERSON writes an article about how professional women need to take up golf to get ahead, I’m going to completely lose my mind. The most recent crop:

Just STOP!

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Am I Neurotic, or is the Whole World Crazy?

EmpowermintsThat’s a rhetorical question. Don’t answer! (And it’s probably a little from column A, and a little from column B.)

But I’ve been feeling a little nuts all day about something that’s ostensibly a “good thing,” and — as I mulled my reaction over — I realized it links back to some other things floating around in the ether as of late. So, here I am, writing about it.

If you have a low tolerance for navel-gazing, I’d suggest moving on…right about NOW.
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Help Some Law Students Out! Take a Survey on Women in the Law

iPhoneI had a great conversation today with the brains behind a fantastic project: a mobile app for women in the legal profession. Think of a one-stop shop for all your networking needs, conferences and events, and content on work, life, and everything in between!

They’re pitching the idea to some VCs in a couple of weeks, and they need YOUR help.

Take this quick survey, and let’s help them get this launched!

(Oh, and it’s already been featured on Forbes.com. Impressive.)

More info below.

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